Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy
Canaan’s Rest represents a quiet place “set apart” for the purpose of hearing God's voice, growing in intimacy with the Lord, and being renewed in soul and spirit.
I am reading Eugene Peterson’s book on David, and who would have thought that the youngest boy of Jesse would perk the interest of the prophet Samuel? Samuel came to Jesse’ farm and was looking over all his sons to find God’s replacement for King Saul. But it wasn’t any of the first 7 sons, though they may have been tall and handsome, but he chose the youngest son, a shepherd boy name David. No doubt his brothers must have been shocked when Samuel anointed their young brother and passed over them. David was God’s pick and he became a man after God’s heart.
God uses us as He wills and we must not believe we have to be important or hold degrees for Him to use us. In fact, Peterson was at a dinner party and the host asked them to share about a person who had made a difference in their life and shaped them in a spiritually formative way? Not one of them chose a professional, a pastor, a missionary, or a CEO, but someone who motivated and encouraged them and gave guidance, though may not stand out in our society.
Let us not think that God can’t use us right where we are at, for He has a calling for each of us. We are successful if whatever we do we do for God and bring Him glory. He puts His desires in our hearts that will befit us and bring deep joy.
Jeremiah spoke to the people what God gave him and didn’t compromise the truth. Most often they didn’t listen and heed the message and suffered for it. Even though the people had been freed long ago from bondage in Egypt, they got tired of living by faith and didn’t acknowledge God’s ways. As a result, they were taken to Egypt where there were set rules and worship of idols. Jeremiah detested the place, but his city had been taken over by the Babylonians, just as he said would happen, and he was put in chains and on his way to Babylon. It was a 700-mile journey in the heat but only a few miles out of the city, the Babylonian captain stopped and spoke a word to Jeremiah from King Nebuchadnezzar. He gave Jeremiah a choice of going there to Babylon or staying behind in his own country with a few of the weak and poor people left behind. He either had to stay in the place where he was made fun of, put in a cistern to die, and ridiculed or go to a foreign country where God is not honored. His chains were cut off and he had to decide between the hard life of staying behind or going to Babylon in protective custody of the king, Life in Babylon would be easier by far and he would be protected and have a pension and not have to even work. The choice was his. He chose to live by faith and stayed in Jerusalem with the poor, believing God would one day restore his remnant people into a holy nation. He rejected the easy life in a place where God was not recognized, to live a hard life where faith was built in God.
I believe in the days to come we are going to have to make decisions if we stand: for God and His kingdom or for our culture that rejects God. Just like Jeremiah, if we choose the Lord, it won’t be easy and we may be made fun of and suffer and be persecuted as He said we would. But do we want to live by faith in God, or do we want to bow to the evil of our culture. Let us choose wisely and He will give us the courage and strength to stand.
I happened to read Delano Shefield from Fuller Seminary who writes about how our silent labor resonates. We don’t have to make a big deal in our work or deeds of kindness but let it speak in the silence, knowing the Lord sees. All that we do should be for the audience of One and that is the Lord. Delano gives the example of the suffering Christians in Thessalonica that received Paul’s message and lived it out in their lives. It was in a quiet way but spoke volumes to others. In I Thess 1:8 Paul says, “But in every place your faith in God has become known, so we have no need to speak about it.” Their faith was evident in what they did so there was no need to say anything. The Christians were doing their ordinary work in a quiet way and it spoke loudly to everyone around them. Paul had established this church on his second Missionary journey and now he was writing to encourage them. He commends them for their faith in action as they followed the teaching he gave them.
Even when our work is very hidden and no one else sees us, God does, and He is our audience! We can become the message just as the people in Thessalonica, as we live our lives for Him.
Some time ago, I read an article by Matt Fuller entitled “Reclaiming Masculinity.” I took some notes as he expressed in the article that men should “take responsibility to lead, be ambitious for God’s kingdom, use your strength to protect the church, serve others, invest in friends and raise healthy ‘sons’.” As I read Fuller’s challenge anew, I found myself being inspired to finish strong, but also feeling regret for missing the mark way too often over 60 years of trying to follow the Lord.
So, I went over Fuller’s checklist to see how I have developed as a man. After 58 years of marriage, I tried to be honest as I looked in the rearview mirror:
1) Men and women really are different – but not THAT different. I had no idea what I was getting into when I got married. I failed miserably, not appreciating the strengths and abilities of my wife. I have learned a lot about being married to a “woman.” God has given me a great treasure in Judy; “she is far more precious than jewels” (Prov. 31:10).
2) Take responsibility. Being a firstborn son, I carried the world on my shoulders. So, early on I was more concerned about “saving the world” than being present for my wife and children. My spiritual life begins at home.
3) Be ambitious for God. As a pastor, I have always been “all in” for God’s kingdom. I knew I was called to this ministry. But I prioritized this too much, and didn’t place my wife and family first.
4) Display thoughtful chivalry. It took me years to really practice chivalry and truly honor my wife. She is my “lily among thorns” (Song of Songs 2:1). Opening doors, giving eye contact, seeking her input, and speaking well of her in public – these I had to learn. I’m still learning to “cherish” Judy and practice chivalry.
5) Use your strength to protect. I assumed the role as head and protector quite naturally; I was the one who “drove the train.” But in the process I was not sensitive to the needs of my wife and children. I had to learn to humble myself, put their needs before mine, and ask for forgiveness when my ego got in the way of my family’s needs.
6) Invest in friendships. Being a heart guy, I have always been relational by nature. But when it came to developing closer relationships with other men, I had little to go on. In my later years, I have come to value closer male friendships that make me more accountable. I am very thankful to have Dan and Bruce in my life.
7) Raise healthy ‘sons’. I raised two sons and have mentored other young men. They are very different from me and from each other. I should have listened more intently, asked better questions, and given them more of my time.
My wife did much better in her role as my wife. She put up with my preaching for 40 years. And she did it wonderfully. She is a “total, natural woman” – integrated and authentic. She has aged much better than I, while I’ve been more like a yo-yo: up and down.
Despite all this, I’m grateful for God’s grace in my life. And I take heart in Paul’s struggle with his “thorn in the flesh.” For the Lord told him, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in your weakness.” I, like many of us, can respond like Paul, “Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me” (II Cor. 12:9).
I must confess when I was without my computer for 2 weeks while it was getting fixed, I wondered what good was going to come if I couldn’t my devotionals out to you who are reading this now. But Al let me use his computer to put new daily devotions on our blog site, although I couldn’t get to those individual ones of you that depend on me to send it direct. Each day it took more time than normal and some devotionals I had to write more than once as they disappeared. But I found out that I had more time, since I didn’t surf the web or play scrabble online and was able to do more studying in some great Christian books. When I did finally get my computer back, I had a great sense of gratitude and felt I had grown through this experience.
Paul sure had a good attitude when he was writing his letters in prison. He could have complained that he was doing the Lord’s work and look how it ended up. But no, he used it as his time to write and encourage others and bless them. We might say it was his pulpit to get the Good News to others, only through the written mode. Let us learn how to stand strong in adverse circumstances and maintain a positive attitude. May we not excuse ourselves and say we can’t do anything about our thinking. We can decide that even ahead of time for the Lord can give us victory over negative thinking and actions if commit ourselves and our thinking to Him. One positive thought will lead to another. A verse I learned as a child is from II Tim 1:7, For God did not give us a spirit of cowardice, but rather a spirit of power and love and self-discipline.” Let us discipline our thoughts to be positive and confident in the Lord.
I am reading another book by Eugene Peterson, Leap Over a Wall, and he uses the stories of David’s life, his victories and failures, his strengths and his flaws to teach us. Although the Bible is full of prayers, sermons, genealogies, letters, poetry etc., Peterson said our scriptures are primarily written in the form of story. Jesus was full of stories and so was Moses and others and they help reveal to us who God is. The Bible is not just a book of spiritual principles or moral guidelines but reveals God to us in ways our hearts can take in. Peterson writes, “Story is the gospel way. Story isn’t imposed on our lives; it invites us into its life.” Stories tell us how primarily how to relate to God, and I never realized it before but “the David story is the most extensive narrated single story in this large story. We know more about David than any other person in Holy scripture.” David takes up a lot of space in the Bible and shows us much of dealing with God.
When we read stories of David, we see his humanness and have to admit he was not the best father or faithful husband, but we also see how he relates to God. I often find myself praying the prayers he prayed and memorizing many of them, like Psalm 5:1-2 when I have need of forgiveness. “Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin!”
It is the love of Jesus that draws people and Paul writes in Romans 12:9-10, “Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honoring each other.” We are to weep with those that are in sorrow or hard situations and we are to rejoice with those who are happy and celebrating. Sometimes God wants us to love by meeting tangible needs of a person struggling, but how do we know how to do that without getting in the way of what the Lord may be working in their lives?
Before we do anything, we need to pray. Ask the Lord to show us their real need and sometimes even to check with the person, because it may not be how we see their situation. Recently a need came before Al and I and we wondered how we could help. We prayed and an idea suddenly popped into mind of how we might help in a tangible way and with it such incredible joy. We asked permission and it was granted and now we pray for more people to be aware of the need and desire to also help.
Love needs tangible ways to be expressed and let us give freely as the Lord directs.
Like 2 Chronicles 7:14 urges, lead our national leaders and citizens to Salvation in Jesus Christ. “If My people, who are called by My name, will humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”
In Jesus’ name, Amen
We are all guilty of judging and when we do that, we are setting ourselves up as better than others, which is spiritual pride. We may be led to confront others when they are sinning but judging them is up to the Lord. He knows the hearts of all, our motive and purposes, and all tht is hidden deep inside of us and will one day bring all these things out in the open. He doesn’t need our help making judgements ahead of time!!
Let us not waste our time and energy trying to get the approval of others, which can change in the flick of an eye. It is the Lord who will judge, and we can lay our hearts open before Him and ask Him to reveal what is in our hearts that needs correcting One of our parishioners told me that I wasn’t sophisticated enough as a Pastor’s wife. You can probably quickly bring up critical things that were said to you. We don’t have to react and defend ourselves but just bring it to the Lord and then rest in His love.
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